A young man who lost his hair, and lost hic chances with most girls. Is it the hair or is it my...?

insecurity after loosing my hair that turns women off?

My superficiality and emptiness as an individual, which has always been there, but now has come out stonger then ever because now that my looks are fading the only thing thats left is whats inside of me. I built up my whole identity on externals, and since nothing lasts too long, I paid the consequences.

So, my question is this, Negativity in life seems to be the most benifical teacher there is, because to put it short, positivity comes too easy its never questioned. The opposite on the other hand forces you to dig a little deeper into things, either that or you wont survive very well. So, why are so many people in despair when something on this level happens e.g. loosing hair, wrinkles, aging etc. in the end these are small things, right? I think this understanding can be used on all levels in life, whatever you can think of. What do you think?

Negative and positive are defined by the individual,

so thats why there both there

A young man who lost his hair, and lost hic chances with most girls. Is it the hair or is it my...?

my husband shaves his head everyday and i think that he is super sexy bald. i mean, it's just hair right. don't feel insecure, it's what's on the inside that counts.

A young man who lost his hair, and lost hic chances with most girls. Is it the hair or is it my...?

Lots of girls find bald men sexy. Some guys shave their heads to get that effect.

A young man who lost his hair, and lost hic chances with most girls. Is it the hair or is it my...?

i think that it is ur insecurity because there are women out there that like men with no hair. Just be more confident and it should all work out!

A young man who lost his hair, and lost hic chances with most girls. Is it the hair or is it my...?

All my hair migrated from the top of my head to my back. I still married a beautiful girl in the middle of all of this.

A young man who lost his hair, and lost hic chances with most girls. Is it the hair or is it my...?

Balding guys can be just as attractive as the rest, you know. Some people feel once their looks are gone, so are their chances of attracting an attractive person. It makes you wonder why all these thirty-something balding guys are all roaming the bars, looking for stupid girls... they don't have to. Who you are is way more important than how much hair you have. I believe us females have a hard time putting ourselves into the shoes of a balding man. Women hardly ever bald, and honestly, I have no idea how I'd take something like that.

A young man who lost his hair, and lost hic chances with most girls. Is it the hair or is it my...?

anything in life thathappens can be determined as and oppurtunity it relies on the individual to bring that oppurtunity to a good outcome or bad

A young man who lost his hair, and lost hic chances with most girls. Is it the hair or is it my...?

I'd say it's your insecurity. Not to say that losing your hair isn't a blow to the ego, but allowing it to undermine your self-worth and confidence is a far bigger issue. I started going gray when I was 18, and haven't done a thing about it. If anything, I've thought about making my hair completely gray. I am personally of the opinion that when my hair starts to thin to the point that I start developing a noticeable bald-spot, I'll probably just shave my head. Why deny or cover up what you can't control? Embrace it, (or at least accept it) and have the confidence to walk out the door without hanging your head in shame.

A young man who lost his hair, and lost hic chances with most girls. Is it the hair or is it my...?

i think the reason people freak out when things like that happen is because in todays society we are taught that you have to look and dress and act a certain way to be accepted. When we try to live up to other peoples standards we only disappoint ourselvs. to be posative all the time is unrealistic, but constant negativity doesnt help either. If there is one thing i've learned in life its this, if your always negative, always expect the worst in people, you'll never be disappointed. But, if you try to find the good in human nature, theres always a chance that you'll get hurt. But, letting the fear of being disappointed or hurt is no excuse for being negative ALL the time. Think about it this way, life is like a river, sometimes it's peaceful and beautiful, other times its rough and difficult to deal with. but, either way, it never stops moving.

A young man who lost his hair, and lost hic chances with most girls. Is it the hair or is it my...?

insecurity

I know lots of bald guys that shave their hair because of top baldness and they have no problems as they are confident funny and kind and have a gentlemanly quality to them

dont stress about things taht are beyond your control

A young man who lost his hair, and lost hic chances with most girls. Is it the hair or is it my...?

what won't kill ya well make you stronger

A young man who lost his hair, and lost hic chances with most girls. Is it the hair or is it my...?

Sounds like a personal problem.

Guys have it easier than gals in that their attractivness to the opposite sex has more to do with their personality than their looks.

If you are bald, but you make everyone happy to be around you, you won't be able to keep the girls off of your dick. That's just the way the world works.

Get over your existensial crisis and start living. The longer you spend lost inside your head or typing with strangers online the longer it will take you to connect with real people.

A young man who lost his hair, and lost hic chances with most girls. Is it the hair or is it my...?

a lot depends on how you come across to other people- if you seem desperate or needy people will perceive you as desperate and needy. In life we learn our lessons in our own time.. How we treated others comes back to us. I don't know you-- but no-- these are not small things when a person is so focused on what they can't control when they are used to being in control of the situation. Itwould be like the story of an elephant in the room but no one is acknowledging the elephant because if they did--- it would be real. I'm really sorry about your hair loss. Nothing I say will make you feel any different. I can tell you this though one of my sons chose to shave his head-- he could care less what people thought--people thought he was a skinhead which was so opposite-He has the most kind heart and has even dated outside his race-He really didn't care-he just didn't feel hair was that important. Because he portrayed this it came across in everything he did and he dated some really wonderful women.